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Question Posted: 6 Dec 2012 at 6:55:05 AM
Hi Joey,

I am a huge fan of yours and I am so intrigued by this study of Bazi. I also love the recorded MelodyFM programs! Unfortunately due to timing and location I haven't had the opportunity to attend any of your personal talks. I know one day I will have the chance. I hope my question gets picked and thank you so much in advance.

I think my life has been quite blessed so far however in the recent years, I find myself at a huge crossroad. There are big decisions I need to make about my life soon, and I cannot stop myself from making a feminist decision.

The personal aspect in my life is forcing me to make a choice between life partner and country, career and financial status. As you can probably read from my chart, I am too selfish to give up all that I have for something that has no guarantee. My personal relationship with my partner has also been unconventional and somewhat extraordinary - my life events seem to unfold in a similar way to his but 2 years later! How do you explain that? At the same time I feel like I am causing distress/misfortune in my partner's life.

1. Does my chart show that I am an unfavourable spouse to my partner? (I am still unable to identify presence of spouse stars in my chart).

2. My biggest question is.. should I take a "leap of faith" and quit my career, move countries (back to Malaysia), get married, and concentrate on supporting my partner in the coming year of Water Snake? My 5 structure shows that I am a terrible supporter. I also have a big financial commitment that will need support from others should I lose my income and I do not wish to rely on my future husband to fill that gap. I am also worried I will be laden with financial difficulties late in life.

3. My DM indicates I am unable to focus / finish what I started doing and I have felt that too. How do you recommend I overcome this weakness? I have great intentions to learn Bazi in depth via your books and online lessons however due to the depth and complexity I fear I will give up before I even start.

4. I will consider this a bonus question: do you think I have a good chart?

Thank you so much Joey. I really appreciate it.
Answered: 14 Dec 2012 at 1:47:07 PM

BaZi Chart 八字
Hour Day Month Year
Heavenly Stems
Bing
Yang Fire
Gui
Yin Water
Ding
Yin Fire
Jia
Yang Wood
Chen (Dragon)
Yang Earth
Hai (Pig)
Yin Water
Mao (Rabbit)
Yin Wood
Zi (Rat)
Yang Water
Earthly Branches
Gui Wu Yi
F
DO
EG
Ren Jia
RW
HO
Yi
EG
Gui
F
Hidden Stems


Dear Crystal, 

My answers to your queries : 


1) No, you are not unfavorable to him. Your spouse star is in the hour branch. 

2). No don't quit your career. Your chart is of a career lady's. Giving your career will mean boredom and stagnation. You will not be happy being a house wife. 

3). This is because you are busy looking for an easier way to do something. You wanna get something done? Easy - fall in love with the "process", not just the "outcome". 

4). Good by what definition? Good or bad is a matter of comparison. Who are we comparing your life to? 


Warm Regards,

JY 






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