I have invested the art of feng shui through your books, courses, talks to improve myself. I am amazed with your hypothesisg & interpretation of the ancient feng shui and your ability to ease our learning process. As for me, I am a struggling student who is interested in own Bazi but despite learning and relearning, I have to take a backseat and unable to progress to a level which many of your students may have achieved. However, I hope I could try my luck writing to you and you could address my concern & help me understand the hurdle I face. 

 1) From the BaZi Ming Pan Calculator that I have charted out, I am lacking in Water. I received offers for jobs but I am skeptical of accepting due to my previous unfavourable working culture. Please advise how can I progress based on my Bazi characteristics? 

 2) Though I am not extremely frustrated at my job, I have done extra ordinary achievements but my current superior does not notice my contribution? Should I give up & step down for a more relaxed lifestyle? Yes or No - what is the solution and a favorable time? 

 3) Am I clash with Horse born in 1990? I can't seem to have a good relationship and talking terms with this daugther of mine although I attempted to communicate. After leading a life of hard-knocks if it is not too late and hope that you could provide some insight from my bazi chart. Should my questions be addressed, I'm prepared and most willing to share my rewards to the needy and recognition to you.

 Thank you for your valuable time. 

SL Ng

Thanks for reading my books. My answers to your questions: 

1. No you are not lacking in Water. You do have water inside your Dragon (Year Branch) and Ox (Day Branch). In fact, water is your favorable element. Your next luck pillar beginning 51 Years old would contain sufficient water for you. 

2. Not to worry. The upcoming Luck Pillar is much better. You will get the recognition you deserve. 

3. You are not in a clash with your daughter. You are giving what your daughter does not want or feel is important. Your priorities or what you believe to be important, is different than heres. Based on your chart, and using the "shifting palace" method to see your daughter's life from your chart, it would seem your daughter is highly talented and is creative. She thinks and analyzes a lot. However, she prefers to arrive at answers on her own and not with your interference. Not to worry, she is not wrong all the time. Give her some space, and she will do fine. 

Warm Regards,

JY